At the funeral (any or all):
Song for the dead - Queens of the Stone Age
Fistful of dollars - Ennio Morricone
another one bites the dust - queen
brass monkey - beastie boys
light my fire - jose feliciano
At the wake:
Tom Waits - Orphans, Brawlers, Bastards on repeat with lashings of bourbon and absinthe
At Private (hungover) get together for those who can/care:
After the gold rush - neil young
but i did not - howie gelb
all the trees of the fields will clap their hands - sufjan stevens
can't get you out of my head - flaming lips vers
alone in kyoto - air
pyramid song - radiohead
perfect day - lou reed
Trust in God but remember to tie up your camel